To the Men Who Broke the Woman Who Just Loved Loving You.

How do I say this in a way that you will hear me? Hear me pleading for the Hmong women who didn’t know better and could only do the best they could to love you. How can I say it in a way that doesn’t coddle and cushion what you did and have no interest […]

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Writing Your Hardships as a Story that was Meant to Be.

When you can’t find the answers to why and how something happened, step back and pretend that it was all apart of a higher power’s plan, and make sense of what that story may be like a Disney movie or a Kdrama we’d see. Because most of our pain, is from the thought that this […]

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When Your Heart Gets Broken By Him Too.

I was scared this day would come. I was scared things would turn out this way. I was scared and I asked for your well being from the beginning of time. I asked that if he were to leave, if he was so sure that he wasn’t just going to drag another soul down with […]

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Resetting When the One You Love Leaves

It is almost safe to say that ever since you left, I have been sick for so many days and I have cried almost every of those days. Even if the heart & mind wants to forget, the body always remembers. The trauma that is left upon it. I guess you can also say that […]

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Healing

Healing comes in waves. Sometimes the waves are higher, sometimes, smaller. Sometimes the waters are calm. The water is clear. And you can see the shore again. Dear, I ask that you allow every ounce of your body to enjoy that moment. Find the corners of your lips lifting. Find that bittersweet smile in knowing […]

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