I Am Not a Hoe Because of What I Choose to Wear

I am not a Hoe because of what I choose to wear. Wearing a choker does not give you any consent to what a man can do to my body & wearing what makes me feel good & expresses my fashion taste does not give you the right to assume sexual positions I would allow you to put me in.

Wearing a choker does not mean I like anal.

Wearing a choker does not mean you can take an intoxicated girl out to a group of a dozen men to publicly demand her to publicly announce her sexual preference in order to “ease” the curiosity of these dying men.

As men who supposedly are known in this community, I would’ve expected to be seen as an equal, no matter what state I am in. I don’t judge you for being here, so don’t judge me. I don’t judge you for your double ear piercings or even the one on a certain side, so don’t judge me.

As a matter of fact, this is one of the first times of me being in this type of party scene for this long of a period of time.

As a matter of fact my close friends are here, so that is the only reason why you see me as I am.

As a matter of damn fact, I’ve always been judged for being too serious, too stuck up, too snobby, too unable to “chill,” that it took me a lot of damn gut to be here right now.

You don’t even know me.

This “hoe” actually graduated top five in her high school class. She actually  graduated from a top university. She actually has multiple jobs she loves. And she actually is talented all around, and she actually has some big as hell dreams that your fetish for anal probably couldn’t cover.

So what makes you think it was okay to ask a girl such a thing even if it was a joke?

Do you like anal?

The least you can do even if you were just trying to have fun is help keep your bros in check. Joke or not, that’s just not cool.

-From a Sister who cares.


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